Sunday, June 19, 2011

Community Resource Father's Day 5k

We thought it might be time. Time for our first, entire family 5k.

Today seemed like the perfect day. The weather was great. The kids were in good spirits. Our tummies were full of homemade sticky buns I'd made for breakfast. We headed over to The Crossings Park, and registered. Brae was particularly excited about the shoe chip.

We ran into our friends Guy, Mandy and their two adorable children.


We had time to hit up the playground before the race.








With 15 minutes until the race start, all systems were a "go".



This picture, in particular, cracked me up. The contrast of Maddie's sassy pose and her brothers' disgusted  looks.


Jack was psyched and confident.

We posed for lots of family photos.

Maddie professed to be feeling great.

And we ran into more friends - Kristin and Declan!



And then the race started. Within 100 yards, the boys had pulled out a big lead. By 200 yards, Maddie was walking. By 400 yards, she was convinced that she was going to pass out. By 800 yards, we were second to last. And by a mile, we walked off the course and headed back to the start. It was so hard to know what to do - would I be sending the wrong message, letting her quit? Or was it simply too far and too warm to continue? But, 200 meters from the finish line, we arrived just in time to see an elderly gentleman collapse on the course, and I knew I made the right decision. Maddie and I had a good time cheering for all the other runners in the final sprint.

After Rob and the Boys came through the finish, we headed over to get our water and fruit. The boys completed the race in 43:15, and it was really a great way to celebrate the awesomeness of fatherhood.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Race Recap: Albany Running Mamas 10k

This morning, the Albany Running Mamas held an informal 10k race.  Well, not so much a race as "pace determiner".  It's time for co-captain Jes and I to assign the Ragnar Relay race legs and vans -  and we thought one of the best ways to do that would be based on pace.  

At 7:30am, we all met at the Corning Preserve boat launch in Albany.
Jill and Christine

Rae Ann and Penny

Me and Erica

Kim and Emma

Kristin, our time keeper

Captain Kelly and Captain Jes

Jenn, Robin, Hope, Emma, Karyn and Erin

The fasties headed out with a GPS and chalk, and 1.55 miles up the bike trail, they marked the turnaround in chalk.  It was the first ARM run where people were truly encouraged to run their own pace - it actually felt really weird to be out on the bike path, and yet running alone.

As we came back through the finish line, we all lined up to make "Power Arches" for our finishers - we had 18 Mamas out and running. I finished squarely in the middle with 1:02:47.

 Afterward, we headed over to the Irongate for an insanely delicious breakfast.
brunch at the Irongate


Two hours after that, Jes and I crafted the Leg/Van assignments for the two teams over her dining room table.  

All in all, a really great day.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

New York City Half Marathon

Whenever I can secured an overnight away from home, I maximize the hell out of it. Last fall a bunch of Running Mamas put their names in the lottery for the NYC Half Marathon, only Robin and I were selected. Which was a bummer, but also, I'm never one to look a gift solo-weekend-in-the-city in the mouth, so I quickly tried to cram as much fun into the weekend as I possibly could. Not that a weekend spent running kids to dance and soccer and birthday parties and dragging them through the grocery store whining isn't fun. But, well, you know.

The amazingly patient Rob and the kids dropped me off at the Mega Bus Stop at 7am, and it was a blissful and quick 2 hours and 30 minutes of pod casts until I hit midtown Manhattan, where my amazingly game for anything friend Liza picked me up. We hit up a diner for breakfast, picked up Robin from the train station and then hit the NYC Half Marathon Expo.

The biggest Expo I've ever attended was the Marine Corp Marathon, which had 20k runners, and was simply enormous. Double the size of Albany's Freihofer - which is still a pretty big expo! So, with 15k runners expected, I was ready to be dazzled by the NYC Half Expo. We made it through the hustle and bustle of packet pick up, in which the Grave Importance of the Orange Wristband was imparted upon us. Put on the wristband now! You cannot get into the race without the Wristband! If you are caught running without the wristband, you will be dragged off the course and prosecuted to the fullest extent! Ok - that last part about prosecution, may or may not be slightly exaggerated. Anyway, we get through packet pick up, and then walk out through about a dozen vendors, decide we need to grab lunch, and that we'll come back and hit up the rest of the expo afterward.

Except, after a delicious lunch, when we returned, there WAS no rest of the expo! Literally - 12 vendors! While we were really surprised, and a bit disappointed, it didn't last for long, because we had a whole city to explore before us. So we headed out.

Eventually, Robin headed out to find a bookstore to browse, and Liza and I headed off to our favorite sketchy massage parlor for dirt cheap massages. My masseuse, however, practiced a form of massage that my friend Colleen suggested was "thai", whereas, I felt like I should have at least gotten a nice dinner before, and flowers after.
Really though, what should I expect from an establishment that thinks "Rub -a-Dub" deserves real estate on their sign?
That night, Liza and I met up with a big group of friends from college for dinner and drinks and had an amazing time.

The next morning, I took a cab up to the east side of Central Park. I arrived just a bit ahead of Robin, and scouted the lay of the chilly land. I really hadn't packed well, and the starting temps were in the high 30s. I nearly froze my toukkas off, in my running skirt, but fortunately, I'm well insulated with my winter weight.
Robin and I, huddling for warmth
The baggage drop was incredibly well organized, with a truck for every 1,000 runners. I met Robin, and we wandered around for a while, grabbed a cup of coffee, and then meandered over to the starting line. It was really well organized, and it was really cool to hear Mary Wittenburg - the NY Road Runner's Club president, Galen Rupp and Kara Goucher speak over the PA system - all people that here to fore I'd read about in my beloved Runners World Magazines.

At 7:30 sharp, the gun went off. It took about 6 minutes to even get to the starting line, but it just felt good to move, after standing in the cold for so long. I'd brought my headphones, but really didn't feel the need to use them, just because there was so much to look at around us. Robin and I hung together through the first mile, which is when my heart rate was edging a little too high, and I urged her to go ahead. She's such a fastie. So I settled in to cruising speed, and enjoyed the sights in that first loop and a half around Central Park.

The view in Central Park


Just after mile 7, we headed out of the park, south, headed towards Times Square. And none too soon - I was starting to get kind of sick of the park - the crowds had thinned out - the winners had already won by this point, and I was ready for some street action! I was not disappointed.

Even though the crowds had thinned a bit, there were still a lot of spectators. And the music acts were now coming along every few blocks or so, which was a lot of fun. And running through Times Square was, as it always is, thrilling.
Running to Times Square
One of the bands

After that though, once we started heading down 42nd street, and away from Times Square, it started to get tough. For one, the wind was whipping down the street from the Hudson River, and by this point, I'd run further than I had since, well, the last half marathon the year before.


The big buildings clearly screwed with my GPS


 And let's face it, the West Side Highway is not known for being a scenic route. It was warehouses and the Jersey Shore. Insert your own Snooki joke here.
Down the Westside Highway
I was able to muster a tiny kick for the finish line, but I was pretty much out of gas. The wind was vicious and cold, and I was grateful when someone handed me a solar blanket, and the finisher's medal was really nice. Approximately 1500 people didn't finish the race! I was handed a bag with snacks and water, and drifted down the finisher's corral with thousands of other finishers/zombies.  I wish I had the presence of mind to take a picture, but I was pretty cold and tired.  and cold.

Liza was able to find me about 20 minutes later, huddling on a bench, shoving pretzels into my mouth. We were able to snatch a cab soon after that, and Liza whisked me off for a lumberjack breakfast, which was possibly the most delicious breakfast I've ever eaten. I was able to get Robin on the phone, who was making her way north to meet her family at the Central Park Zoo.

All in all, I'm so glad I did the race. I don't feel like I need to do it again (the way I feel about the Marine Corp Marathon), but it was a great and satisfying experience.

The full race route

Over all - 

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Monday, January 17, 2011

Waikiki

Ok - now that we've been back a week (seriously?  That's all?) I have a minute to put up pictures.  We'll start with our arrival to Waikiki.
 There is a linear state park that runs between Waikiki Beach,  and the main street in Honalulu.  Everywhere there are statues and gorgeous old trees and public beaches with surfers.


 One of the most surprising things for us about Honalulu was all the homeless people.  This guy was sleeping under the tree with the two birds from the previous picture.  And the main road that runs along Waikiki Beach is full of mentally ill and/or homeless people sleeping on mats, right on the sidewalk.  At least one on every block we walked, and it was about 8 blocks between our hotel and J & Em's.
 One of the other surprising things about Honalulu was the massive amounts of landscaping.  This is in the Hawaii equivalent of the Jockey Lot.  Which, if you've never been to Anderson, SC's Jockey Lot - you're missing out - its a giant flea market where you can buy everything from underwear and tube socks to chickens and goats.  Well, in Honalulu, their Jockey Lot was gorgeously landscaped with tropical plants.
 Ah.  Feels like home!
 This was the view from our balcony.  I think we spent a grand total of 60 awake minutes in our hotel on our first night in Hawaii.  We got in around 9:30 pm, passed out, and then woke up and headed out to walk down the beach to meet J & Em for breakfast, and then spent another 2 hours shopping for souveniers for our families before J&Em picked us up to head for Ko Olina.
 I absolutely loved this sign.  Everyone in Hawaii says Aloha, and Mahalo is thank you.  I got called a Wahine by a bus driver who was excited that I learned to surf.  And everyone we came in contact with was beyond lovely.  So laid back and accommodating.  There was definitely a different sense of time.


By 11am, we'd checked out of our hotel and were off to Ko Olina with J&Em, their 3 month old Abbi, and J's mom, the lovely Carol (henceforth to be called C).

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Getting to Aloha

I'm still having a hard time believing we are here.  Until our plane actually pulled away from the gate, I still didn't 100% believe we were going to go.


First, there was the big storm last weekend, that knocked Newark airport (our connecting terminal) offline for 4 days.
76 hours before departure, they resumed flights.  Woo hoo!

70 hours before departure, we got the call from the sitter that Maddie was vomiting. A lot. The worrying starts.

58 hours before departure, my GI system starts to fail.  The worrying intensifies.
46 hours before departure, after a really rough night, Maddie and I rally.  Woo hoo!

38 hours before departure, I'm running a 101 degree fever.  Freaking heck.

24 hours before departure, it's New Year's Eve and I wake up feeling awesome.  Everyone is feeling awesome.  We are going to Hawaii in 24 hours!  We spend our New Year's Eve bowling with good friends, and Grandma Jeanne arrives for a week of Granny Nannying.
11.5 hours before departure. Brae wakes up after an hour of sleep and his eyes hurt and are swollen.  It looks suspiciously similar to the orbital cellulitis he had 2 years ago.  We head out to the Emergency Room.  Fortunately, I seem to know everyone in the AMC emergency room and they all take pity on us, moving us through in a record three hours.  
8 hours before departure: we arrive home.  I'm still not optimistic we're going - only if Brae's eye is better from the antibiotcs in the morning, will we go.  We go back to sleep.
7.5 hours before departure: Maddie wakes up.  She starts throwing up a lot.  again.  However, it seems to be that her coughing is aggravating her gag reflex, and it isn't viral. 
1 hour before leaving for the airport: we wake Brae up and check out his eye.  It's better.  Grandma Jeannie tells us to go.  We hustle out the door and hold our breath until our plane pulls away from the gate.  Up until then, there was still time for Grandma Jeannie to fall down the stairs, a kid to contract malaria, or the house to catch on fire.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

We're going on a Jingle Hunt

Jingle McElfigan is not only Elvish, She's Irish Elvish, which makes her doubly clever.  Almost a little too clever.  The Mateja children are only 12.5% Irish, but 37.5% Polish - so note quite nearly as clever.  Which makes it really difficult for them to find her.  Because they've also happened to inherit my complete inability to find anything, ever.  What can I say - I'm about the Big Picture, not the details.

So this morning, the Mateja kids were having Difficulties.  Jingle was hiding on top and behind the ceiling fan.
Taped, behind her, is her letter to the kids.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Dear Jackson, Madeleine and Braeden,

Heh heh heh.  I’m trying to be trickier with my hiding!  But you still keep finding me!

I’m so happy with how you did all your good deeds yesterday!  This morning, I’ve hidden very special treats for you.  Follow the clues to find your surprises.

Brae: Go to the place where biscuits are baked.
Maddie: Go to the place where you clean your body.
Jackson: Go to the place where your mother reads the time, when she’s done dreaming.

All my love,

Jingle McElfigan


Fortunately, they're pretty good at figuring out clues.  At each of the destinations, there was a clue to another place.
Where the Disney Dollars live.
 And then another, where they finally found their surprises:

A Lego Batman Shirt!
Also a Lego Batman shirt.  Because sometimes it makes life SOOOOOO much easier to just get two of something than deal with histrionics after every time something goes through the laundry, and then the equivalent of a G20 summit must be convened to negotiate the terms of who wears what.  And this is for boys.


And a night gown!  Which, does not have a drop of pink in it, which has been pointed out repeatedly.  All Day.

Another successful Elfing.

Monday, November 29, 2010

The name's Jingle. Jingle McElfigan.

And she likes her Egg Nog shaken, not stirred.

Jingle is one of Santa's Elves, who 11 months out of the year spends her days as a stable hand, cleaning up after Santa's reindeer, feeding them, brushing them, and keeping them from getting too drunk on peppermint schnapps (which, other than egg nog, is the only hooch available to North Pole Denizens) or too fat from all the leftover Christmas cookies Santa hauls home from his Christmas Eve flight.  You can't seriously believe Santa eats ALL those cookies?  No!  Like Rob's grandmother with Sweet-n-Low packets, he shoves them in his bag to bring home and save for later.

Anyway, Girlfriend gets awful tired of shovelling reindeer crap, and obtains a furlough to come spend one month out of the year in Albany with the Mateja kids.  It's part vacation, and part SS-esque spying for Santa.  She tries to help the kids understand the true meaning of Christmas, by giving them assignments that help them be better citizens, friends and family.

The problem is, Jingle hasn't spent a lot of time with humans, so she doesn't always know what's appropriate.  She LOVES to play tricks (a la, The Underpants Tree), she loves to hide from the kids, and she loves to leave little presents - usually as rewards for when they've been super good, or gone out of their way to be super nice to each other.  Because that's the TRUE spirit of Christmas.  Bribing children to behave the way you think they ought to.  I'm  just saying.

Usually, Jingle is waiting for us at home, after we've returned from Brown Family Thanksgiving in Oswego. This year, she had something else up her sleeves: she was hiding at Grammy Sue's house.  And she brought her red headed cousin, Jangle, to watch over the Dufour kids this Holiday Season.
Jangle and Jingle, hiding in Grammy Sue's living room.
 This year they'd brought a necklace making kit for each of the kids, with Jingle Bells on them.  Although, with the kids galloping around the house with the bells on, it triggered some PTSD for Jingle, causing her to flash back to Santa's Reindeer Stable, so we had to guard the Peppermint Schnapps for the rest of the afternoon.



Oddly enough, Maddie was initially really terrified by Jingle and Jangle's appearance.  Her first reaction was that of a little girl who sees dead people in a movie - quivery lips, pale face, but she soon warmed up, and Jingle was making the rounds with all the Thanksgiving celebrators.



On her first night, Jingle met Lola, and it was not love at first sight.  In fact, Jingle got a gander at the number Lola did on Maddie's Barbie, and promptly built herself a towering fort on the kitchen table to protect herself from Lola.  In her letter to the kids, she admonished them make sure that they kept her safe from Lola.  She also wrote this to them:


So how about this – let’s play a game today.  Every time your mom catches you being a bucket filler, she’ll put a penny in this cup – let’s see how much you can fill it up!  And at the end of the day – if there’s enough pennies in there – I’ll bring you a surprise tomorrow.  But that means a whole day of bucket filling – being kind, listening, thinking about other people’s feelings.  But you guys can do that, right?

And surprisingly, we did not have a good day, and my bucket did not runneth over.  So much so, Jingle decided the kids were so rotten, she sat on her ass all night, and decided she really didn't want to play with kids that mean.  Or, I forgot to help Jingle with her shenanigans.  BUT, that was probably because I was so emotionally exhausted from the constant barrage of fighting.  I'm just saying.

However, the NEXT day, they were SUPER AWESOME.  And Jingle brought stampers for the kids to play with.  Which was doubly awesome, because it was a Saturday morning, and the kids spent a good 30 minutes stamping, and not waking their parents up to get them breakfast.  Bonus.

On the 29th, here is Jingle's letter to the kids:

Monday, November 29, 2010

Dear Jackson, Madeleine and Braeden,

How did you find me this morning?

What a weekend!  I saw some really crazy behavior this weekend, and also some really awesome behavior!  I especially liked how nicely you kids worked on your crafting, and I heard that Maddie did an awesome job helping her mom shop last night.

Tell you what – let’s make this a game – I’ve hidden one of your Christmas mugs in the house.  I’ll give you a hint: there’s a shower in the room.

In the mug, there are a bunch of secret missions for you guys to do.  Each of you have to pull out one red and one green, and if you complete them today, I’ll bring you a special surprise tomorrow….p

All my love,

Jingle McElfigan



Hold the door open for people whenever you can.

Give 5 people a nice compliment today.

Tell your teachers why you think they’re great.

Tell your mom and dad why you think they’re great.

Feed Lola and make sure she has water.  Practice “sit” with her.

Draw your very best picture for Grandma Great or Grammy Dot.

Call Grammy Sue and Papa Bob to tell them why you think they’re great.

Call Grandma Jeannie and Papa Mike to tell them why you think they’re great.

I have to say, the kids did a pretty good job executing their secret missions.  A very confused Papa Mike listened to Maddie explain why he's so great, as did Grammy Sue with Brae tonight.  Jack recounted all the compliments he paid people today, and Maddie did a fantastic job working with Lola after dinner, while Brae colored a very nice picture for Gramma Great.  It was truly awesome.


And now, Jingle is lining up her next Shenanigan for the kids.....